Welcome to The Hidden JEM

Step into a realm where history gracefully intertwines with modern elegance at our exclusive private event estate.  Nestled among the oldest vines on Long Island, you'll find a beautifully reimagined 1760 English barn, accompanied by farmhouse accommodations just steps away.  The Hidden JEM offers an enchanting escape across 66 acres of breathtaking rolling grape vines int he heart of Cutchogue, New York.


At The Hidden JEM, we redefine sophistication, creating a sanctuary of quiet luxury on the North Fork of Long Island.  Here, raw roots meet refined style, providing the perfect backdrop for unforgettable moments. Immerse yourself in the charm of our picturesque surroundings and experience the pinnacle of comfort and elegance in our Barn & Farmhouse. Join us in crafting cherished memories that will last a lifetime.

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We are thrilled to partner with the architectural and creative design team of John Mazur and Brooke Cantone of LUMBER+Salt to recreate this magical event space.

The Barn

The Farmhouse

The Farmhouse

Welcome to our beautifully reimagined barn, originally erected in 1680 and transformed into Long Island's pioneering Hargraves Vineyard in 1973. Now meticulously restored in 2025, our 66-acre working winery stands as the ideal venue for your North Fork wedding weekend.  Celebrate your special moments with a rehearsal dinner, afterparty, or photo shoot in a serene, private setting, featuring a picturesque half-mile driveway, flourishing vines, and breathtaking sunset views. Enjoy flexible spaces that offer a truly unique vineyard experience.


Inside, you'll find a vintage mercantile cocktail bar, reclaimed tables, and a cozy lounge adorned with a classic chesterfield and club chairs. Charming accents throughout blend modern touches with timeless elegance. Our surround sound system ensures your celebration can effortlessly transition to the dance floor.

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The Farmhouse

The Farmhouse

The Farmhouse

A charming vineyard farm road winds gracefully off a peaceful rural street, leading to a sleek, modern farmhouse that perfectly fuses charm with contemporary style. This retreat features spacious sleeping arrangements, including 6 inviting bedrooms, 7 cozy beds, and 3.5 baths, all recently renovated and designed for ultimate comfort and relaxation.


Nestled in serene seclusion, you can wander down a dirt road to discover the original Long Island Tasting Room. Enjoy breathtaking vineyard sunsets views for the master suite balcony while being just moments away from several beautiful beaches, perfectly situated between the Long Island Sound and Peconic Bay. Notably, this remarkable property was the setting for Louisa Hargrave's celebrated book, "The Vineyard".

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Events

The Farmhouse

Events

Chef Lauren Lombardi is the ultimate companion for The Hidden JEM, crafting extraordinary events that are a feast for the senses. With a keen eye for detail, she collaborates closely with local vineyards, farms, and food artisans, passionately showcasing the exceptional quality and freshness that our region has to offer. From vibrant, farm-fresh produce to locally caught seafood and sustainable wines, each ingredient weaves a tale of the land and the dedicated individuals who nurture it.


Laurens' mission is beautifully simple: to invite quests to immerse themselves in the essence of the East End with every delectable bite, fostering a spirit of togetherness around the communal table. Renowned for her exquisite catering at weddings and events, her bespoke business has graced the pages of Vogue Weddings and Brides Magazine, making every celebration a memorable masterpiece.

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        The Hidden JEM

        4782 Alvahs Ln, Cutchogue, NY, USA

        info@NofoHiddenJEM.com (646) 382-5153

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